Come back into relationship
with yourself
Slow, relational work for self-love and inner guidance — without force, fixing, or performance.
If your life looks “together” on the outside but something inside feels disconnected, you’re not alone. We return to your inner knowing — gently, honestly, in your timing.
Start here:
Private 1:1 (now booking) • Joyful You 2.0 (opens Feb 15)
New York Award Program Honors the Achievement of Self-Love Coach & Mentor - Nicola Fernandes
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Press is lovely — but what matters most is the lived change my clients feel.
You’ve tried to figure it out on your own — and something still feels off.
So you don’t keep thinking, “I should be happy… why am I not?
Is any of this familiar?
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You look capable on the outside, but inside you feel disconnected or alone.
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You second-guess yourself and don’t trust your own choices.
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You have so much… and still don’t feel safe or truly happy.
Is any of this true for you?
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You feel lost or disconnected — and you don’t trust yourself the way you want to.
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You replay past choices and feel guilt, shame, or anger at yourself.
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You have “so much,” yet you don’t feel deserving or fully happy.
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A part of you is scared nothing will change if you keep going like this.
I know this path — and I know how to guide you home.
I’ve lived the experience of looking “fine” on the outside while feeling disconnected inside.
Over the last decade+, I’ve devoted my life to learning what actually creates real self-love: not performance, not forcing positivity — but coming back into relationship with yourself.
Today, I help women rebuild self-trust, self-worth, and inner guidance through grounded mentorship and intuitive healing.
If you’re ready for real support — gentle, honest, and grounded — you’re in the right place.
Here’s how we begin:
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Step 1 —Book a free 30-minute Self-Love Fit Call. We’ll gently clarify what’s happening and what you truly need.
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Step 2 —If we’re aligned, I’ll recommend your best next step (private 1:1 is available now; Joyful You opens soon).
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Step 3 —You begin with support — clear direction, steady practice, and real change you can feel.
What becomes possible when you come back to yourself:
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You trust yourself again — and stop second-guessing everything
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You feel calmer in your body and clearer in your decisions
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You soften self-criticism and rebuild real self-worth
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You heal old patterns that keep repeating in love, work, and family
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You feel more connected — to yourself, your partner, your kids, your life
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You experience more steady joy (not the “high,” the real kind)
"Choosing Nicola as a spiritual coach was one of the best decision I've made on my spiritual journey. I've been working with Nicola for 6 months now and have been making tremendous progress in healing. Nicola provides loving guidance through her coaching sessions and her shaman sessions provides clarity and deep energetic cleansing to support me in my journey. I always feel love, light and warmth after I leave one of her sessions. She really takes care of her clients! Nicola emphasizes on teaching her clients and giving them tools to be strong on their own. I am forever grateful to have met Nicola on my path."
Annie W.
"I met Nicola at a healing circle and was immediately drawn to her loving light, without knowing anything about her. Since, I've worked with Nicola in Angel healing, Munay Ki and in Shaman sessions, all of which helped me on my own journey and all amazing experiences. Nicola is loving, encouraging and eager to share her gifts so we may discover our own. What a gift to us all! ❤️🙏🏼"
Marilyn Zagha-Keeshan
"What would you say is the biggest result for you in working with Nicola? Everything we did in our sessions has transformed my life tremendously. The timeline jumping, going back on different timelines was the most beneficial. The biggest result is how confident I have become. I am a completely different person. Those sessions give me the willpower needed to take control of my life and make the needed changes Thank you so much "
Shemethia
"“Nicola is a great teacher who combines ancient wisdom with modern approaches”"
Nina Stromann
Founder of Coconut Life®️
""Where do I begin? To meet this amazing soul has truly transformed my life in such little time. At a time when I thought everything was impossible and felt completely down in the depths of darkness, I somehow was led to Nicola. What was a Shaman? Who is a Shaman? I had not a clue (LOL)…but knew that she was placed in my life for a reason. Skepticism overtook me in the beginning, but she amazed me every time I silently questioned how our sessions would be or what she could teach me. I know when working with Nicola everyone’s journey will be unique to them, but I will say with Nicola in your life you will feel that unstoppable feeling you never thought was possible for you. I could go on and on about my time with her, so for now, just know I am finally excited about life again with a toolbelt full of brand-new tools to forge ahead. Blessed!!!""
Giselle Samson
"The first thing that came to my mind is PEACE. I am in a greater sense of peace and calm than I ever was before working with you. The state of peace opens the door for joy, happiness, being in the flow, and an overall deeper connection to myself and spirit. It allows me to slow down and be calm to allow for all these wonderful things that are available. "
D, NYC
"Connecting to my soul. I am so grateful for the tools you taught me during our 6 months of working together. You made a big positive impact on my life."
Sonia, CA
"Learning how to Love myself was definitely huge. As well as learning to create space for me.... make myself first. Before I would have thought that's a selfish thing to do, making myself first, yet it led me to surplus and abundance in all areas. So happy and grateful to be with Nicola, her support & her energy!"
Pippa, NY
"I think the biggest gift I received from working with Nicola is knowing, without a doubt, I am good, worthy, blessed beyond comprehension and my presence in the world is necessary. I am not defined by whatever I do or by how others perceive me. "
Laura, Pennslyvania
New York, NY - USA
